um... to be quite honest, i don't think that it's a sign of gayness at all, imo one of the ways that man (as far as i've seen) expressing his dominance is through sex. Building upon that, i would have thought a straight line could've been drawn linking the Pwnage/ownage of persons in a game to that of "them" or "ya'll" gettin rape, its just my opinion and i find it strange that no one sees this, it's like this, when i hear fallas talking bout a man get rape, it's usually accompanied by sentiments of said individuals being turned into a "Bitch" which just boils back down to my original impression, now as to the whole cic thing, i eh know what to say bout that one....lol
I still don't think it's right to perpetuate a pseudo gay culture through our speech. Half the influential battle is fought in our mind via speech and mindset. just ask the British colonists who subjegated us if u don't believe me.