Ode to the Nice Guys

[[X]~Bryan_Master]

The thing is women move instinctively just like men do and just like men would instinctively go for the chick whos kind and sweet and really femine with femanistic qualities the women would go for exactly the oppposite which is masculinity or the idolized alpha male, the guys who most of us wishe we were but are just to afraid to be him. Why you think it is that both women and men love guys like Steve austin, 50 cent, Slim shadey and other no nonesence characters, they do what they want and don't give a shit, pluss they are a rare comodity. Let go embrace your testosterone, why do you really need to be nice to somone who really dosn't give a fuck any way. Tease be playfull cockey funny a litttle live a little and come out your shell, chicks are accustomed to guys complimenting them and doing evrything the think nessasary to get into their panties which is why they go for guys who dont care and calls them sexy with a big bubble but if they feel to but still has the decency and self respect to call her on it if she start Fin up and getting cockey.

I remeber this one girl I kind liked, I one day I rememberd I joked about me staying at her place and sleeping on her bed (we were at her house for a party), she said in a sort of harsh manner that we would hhave to find some way to get home. I laughed my pants off at her after that cause I knew it was a loke and I taught It was funny, and way later now in life she likes me and always find some smrt thing to say to me or is smileing at me or generall showing intrest, but I'm not realy intrested right now, took her too long, now mines elsewhere, she's about a close 8-9 BTW. Another girl I grew up with since Primary school, I remember she once witnessed me  beat up a bully back in HS, who was always picking on other kids, she was always talking bout it and telling people not to mess with me and all that shit, later on now she has a crush on me, probably heightened by the fact that I'm now buff which she also like but I guess you get the point. It is manly characteristics that attract women no feminine ones, If you get labeled as just like one off her feemale friends then she'd see you as weak and unable to protect her. If you display manly characteristics like confidence dominince humour and that don't give up never quite attitude then she'll respect you and learn to love you for it, her mouth will be saying on thing (I hate him hes so cockey and full of himself) while her pu##y will be saying come get me I'm so wet, its instinctive there's nothing she can do about it.

Guys I may ask you one question, have you ever found youself attracted to a woman who is really feminine and sweet and sincere and sensitive and careing and nurturing, men are generally able to suport themselves why would they need nurtureing by a female. Here's the answer, the creator has loveinly put in us these instincts in us in order to know the right potential mate, it is these feature that will make us attracted to the type of chick who will best mother our children. Women are instinctively directed to go for the direct opposite of manly characteristics, it is genitic.

So men go on and embrace your testosteronized bodies and and be that evrything a man ought to be regaurdless, women will come to know and love it go on persueing and dominateing. Women may say somthing wit their mouth but I think there actions speak better don't you. Don't be afraid of her pusssy, if your intrested don't be afraid to show it, women generally take a longer time to know if they like a guy and their feeling will be heightned according to what you do, but if you don't do nothinmg what do you expect, and i'm not talking bout giveing floweres and candy and not knowing how you really feel. Talk to her express how you feel, don't be afraid to touch or ak her out now and then even if she has a BF, she may be afraid of you a bit for it but its because she's finding herself attracted to you for it.

So go on embrace life and embrace it to the fullest and don't be afraid to Live  little



But anways I feel you and sympathize. I used to be that 'nice'guy, the one to afraid to open up his feeling but never too much so the hear other. Guess what happened, I grew up got over it and no longer give a danm. What life worth living If you never show your true self.                    

[~*Ashiee*~]

ok to all of you all who said it is my views
that is not necessarily so

i was just posting the other view/side to waggs own

it was an article i posted from a link

maybe i should write a disclaimer to my relayed links:
"THE VIEWS IN THIS PAGE ARE NOT NECESSARILY THOSE OF SPLITPSYCHO"                    

[~Psycho^Dunpeal~]

lol@ psyhco...
but ummmm... dude.....bryan...... that's a very wierd post, in that i agree with u and disagree... ah mean is like yeah, the whole thing bout the females looking for a certain thing and guys the same is very true.... but is like then in ur post u also promoting unfaithfullness... talkin bout pullin ah man girl away from him and nonsense... ah mean yeah, u would be happy and maybe she would, but then think - she may really care  for that person and she may get hurt...... also the other dude would be hurt as well.... so basically u hurting others just to make urself feel good - that's no better than the bully u beat up in primary skool...... to me that's jsut selfish and it's that kinda thing that does upset me bout trini people especially... they doh care bout others and they doh think before they act.....
they never sit to wonde, "hmmmm, if i do this, who would it affect?" and that's just wrong.... thus why all this nonsense happenin today..... man stickin man with needle with aids all kinda nonsense.... jah dread....                    

[strongton]

it's that kinda thing that does upset me bout trini people especially... they doh care bout others and they doh think before they act.....
they never sit to wonde, \"hmmmm, if i do this, who would it affect?\"

thats plp in general, it have plp like that all over the world                    

[[X]~Bryan_Master]

lol@ psyhco...
but ummmm... dude.....bryan...... that's a very wierd post, in that i agree with u and disagree... ah mean is like yeah, the whole thing bout the females looking for a certain thing and guys the same is very true.... but is like then in ur post u also promoting unfaithfullness... talkin bout pullin ah man girl away from him and nonsense... ah mean yeah, u would be happy and maybe she would, but then think - she may really care  for that person and she may get hurt...... also the other dude would be hurt as well.... so basically u hurting others just to make urself feel good - that's no better than the bully u beat up in primary skool...... to me that's jsut selfish and it's that kinda thing that does upset me bout trini people especially... they doh care bout others and they doh think before they act.....
they never sit to wonde, "hmmmm, if i do this, who would it affect?" and that's just wrong.... thus why all this nonsense happenin today..... man stickin man with needle with aids all kinda nonsense.... jah dread....

Eh. I'm not sure where you get the unfaithfullness  part from. I'll have to go over my post and check it again, but I might have hinted to the part that you have really know what your about, if you see a girl and you know she's what you want in a woman you gotta let her think that, but not let her know that, even if she has a Boy Friend, its not like they're married or anything. Most BF GF relationships don't last that long these days anyway, so t may just be a matter of time when she's fed up wit  her Bf and is ready for a real man. But how are you gonna know this if you don't let her know your intrested and ask her out from time to time, even if you do get regected. Girls don't ask guys out, theyre scared to death of it and if so the do it discreetly so you gotta take the iniative. I remember this one girl was intrested in my bro just last night, he's a good looking guy and they say he looks like Usher, but she was hesitant to ask him to dance and came up to me who she knew and asked me his nameand i had to go and tell him she was intrested. The pont is tat girls are somtimes just as scared as guys so you gotta be the man. Also you need not take shit from a gir just because your intrested. You gotta treat her just like you would your male friend if he starts bitchin, next her, meaning past herr up for a while and let her know you have other options. Think about it if a girl you like startes flirting with another guy dosn't it get you jealouse and make you want her more, the some is likewise in her case as well. It dosn't mean your unfaithfull, your just playing the game, they do it to and are good at it.                    

[~M@kaveli~]

Fellas lemme tell allyuh from experience
Waggy's post, True'er words have never been spoken
That Mr nice guy thing doh cut it
Is eat or be eaten. Like they say a closed mouth can't get fed
I've tried it, listening to them b1tch and moan bout they man and blah blah blah
So I say u want meat take ya A$$ to the butcher (read between the lines).
But still be nice eh doh ever really stop cause I believe it will come back to yuh (ying & yang). So do you!                    

[Lost_Soul]

Let me have my fun with the bad before I get to the good maybe I'll like them better then have a better sense that they are good for me.                    

[Rommel]

if I have to be a "bad guy" to get a girl I don't want that kind of girl

sorry to say but I am who I am and she better appriciate me for who I am, and not some mask I supposedly have to put on otherwise it wouldn't really be me she wants, just who she thinks I am                    

[W1nTry]

Thats not true, cause being a nice guy gets u a waste of a human being (female) as well as its been a long standing observation girls do take after 'bad guys' faster than good guys but hey, why be a good guy get $%^&*( over by some bad guy? dread I have always believed it and recently I believe it even more that good guys finish LAST....

AND ONE more thing, once yuh $%^& up a nice guy chances are he'll become a bad guy, so waste all the time u want on bad guys, they'll all be bad eventually                    

[New Era Outlaw]

Thats not true, cause being a nice guy gets u a waste of a human being (female) as well as its been a long standing observation girls do take after 'bad guys' faster than good guys but hey, why be a good guy get $%^&*( over by some bad guy? dread I have always believed it and recently I believe it even more that good guys finish LAST....

AND ONE more thing, once yuh $%^& up a nice guy chances are he'll become a bad guy, so waste all the time u want on bad guys, they'll all be bad eventually

Actually, part and parcel of being one of the good guys is being able to be strong in the face of adversity, in this case, the temptation to turn bad when provoked. But part of what you say is indeed true....when you beat on a nice guy, no matter how nice he is, most of the time, he will want his shot at revenge. He may or may not carry it out, but its his very humanity that will crave it. Believe me, it's happened to me on countless occassions, and, to this day, and to some extent, I still want my revenge.
I -did- have a chance once, but I figured there and then, it wasn't worth it to cave in his rib cage with my steel-toe boots. I retained my cool, and basically told him to back off. It's in our very nature, our very human weakness to 'beget evil with evil', but it's up to us to realise that revenge isn't the answer, and will lead to further troubles up the road.

...on the topic of girls, not all girls like bad boys. The girls I know like mature, level headed individuals, that take their time in matters such as these. That, of course, are the girls that I know, but what I'm saying is that it all depends on which girls you are talking about. There are precious angels that wait around for that one special guy, and then there are the little she-devils that live by the saying 'The winner takes all'.
Sometimes, it doesn't matter if you're a good guy or a bad boy, it depends on the girl as well.