Author Topic: Understanding Women...anyone accomplished that yet?? (Read 30701 times)

SPK · « **Reply #60 on:** February 09, 2007, 12:06:43 PM »

Thread unlocked in the meantime... I will keep an eye out in here, if ppl continue misbehaving in here though, back goes on the padlock...

Carigamers · « **Reply #60 on:** February 09, 2007, 12:06:43 PM »

Saxito Pau · « **Reply #61 on:** February 09, 2007, 12:11:10 PM »

Thank you, gentlemen. I really couldn't believe I was gonna be denied to comment on the topic at hand "officially" on account of off-topic banter. Due to time constraints though, I will post my topic views this evening...

vivman1107 · « **Reply #62 on:** February 10, 2007, 06:11:23 PM »

More advice from a little story:

"Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse.

"So, do you always carry your TV remote?" I asked.

"No," she replied, "but my husband refused to come shopping with me, so I figured this was the most legal evil thing I could do to him."

Apprentice · « **Reply #63 on:** February 10, 2007, 06:53:36 PM »

I'm beginning to believe that you can't actually understand a woamn...what you should do is

Trust none of them

Love none of them

Tell them what they wanna hear so that you could get what you want

I've seen it work several times but I, personally, real have too much conscience so I really can't do that no matter how simple it may seem..REAL fellas does that breathless tho..daz the tactic to get more than one woman...doh say that i told you tho:P

TrinireturnofGamez · « **Reply #64 on:** February 10, 2007, 06:57:52 PM »

Women are bloody complicated . Worse yet , the same formula won't apply to all women , you have to find the ideal ratio of bieng macho to sensative , ignoring her to giving her attention , for EACH one . Its hard but not impossible ....

Though it gets harder the higher up the food chain you go , and depending on the individual's personality . Some are very easy to please but knowing how to please them is the trick. ....

And the most annoying part is , that once a month everything you know about her can go out the window and PMS is not a predictable thing....

Though a surefire way to get one is to not appear like you about them relationship wise , treat them like a friend but nothing more , don't go out of your way to spend time with them , they'll come to you eventally.

Professional help here : http://www.john-ross.net/advice.htm

Carigamers · « **Reply #64 on:** February 10, 2007, 06:57:52 PM »

Saxito Pau · « **Reply #65 on:** February 11, 2007, 06:24:19 AM »

Quote from: Apprentice on February 10, 2007, 06:53:36 PM

I'm beginning to believe that you can't actually understand a woamn...what you should do is

Trust none of them

Love none of them

Tell them what they wanna hear so that you could get what you want

Now you're getting the point.. GOOD!

Quote from: Apprentice on February 10, 2007, 06:53:36 PM

I've seen it work several times but I, personally, real have too much conscience so I really can't do that no matter how simple it may seem..REAL fellas does that breathless tho..daz the tactic to get more than one woman...doh say that i told you tho:P

You'll learn that once you've been burned enough times, or sufficiently badly one time.. a stage which I am close to, but have not crossed.

Now while I personally don't advocate such 'dark side' tactics (damn myconscience!), but in my experience, the good side will earn you the title of

"god's gift of friendship to women"

If you can understand how a girl can tell you she enjoy herself so much when she is out with you and then tell you "when you get a gf..." and then go off with a guy that is clearly the opposite of what you are in character... then come back to you for ADVICE about him... well then, sir, you have reached Vizard level

Nephilim · « **Reply #66 on:** February 11, 2007, 07:47:53 AM »

so what EXACTLY is it you guys want from a relationship with a girl?

i mean i know what the common thing is that all ah we want, but what is it that you would characterize individually?

Cross · « **Reply #67 on:** February 11, 2007, 11:45:10 PM »

LOl hm........lets see what i have learnt this weekend...I've been helping this girl who just got out of a relationship...blah blah the guy did this blah blah and I was tackling one from UWI....

1st. If she just got out a long relationship......taclking is the last thing you should be trying....
2nd. One of the greatest un-truths in the World......Girls mature faster than boys...that is BS to the highest

Ok...certain ppl can be immature...and sadly the majority are fellas....but hands down girls just as bad if not worse.

My ex once told me that girls truly do not know what they want until they turn 19......I've since concluded that the real age is 21.

A 19yr old thinks she knows what she wants in a man....but she doesn't know what she wants for herself se the irony?
At 21 most are working or getting ready for work so basically their 'plan' is more or less fixed and you could take the chance

NB this applies for most not all girls.

W1nTry · « **Reply #68 on:** February 12, 2007, 08:21:13 AM »

Well my opinion is most women don't know what they want in a man, and that it changes like the wind. They may SEEM to know what they want, but the 'right'-'wrong' guy will pass by and poof! her wants change.. so ah well. I also agree @ BS girls mature faster.

vivman1107 · « **Reply #69 on:** February 12, 2007, 10:22:05 AM »

The thing that makes people think girls mature faster is that guys are more openly immature. They will go off on games, sports, cars and other things that are considered immature by so-called mature people. Girls tend to let go of all their "childish" attachments early on in their teenage years and then seem to be more mature. However, a quick look at anything on MTV will show that there is little difference between guys and girls with respect to relationships.

Apprentice · « **Reply #70 on:** February 12, 2007, 03:46:19 PM »

Quote from: WASD on February 11, 2007, 07:47:53 AM

so what EXACTLY is it you guys want from a relationship with a girl?

i mean i know what the common thing is that all ah we want, but what is it that you would characterize individually?

Doesn't matter really cause u have to understand her at least a little bit otherwise, what you want may not necessarily mean that she has it or is willing to give it to u either...

Nephilim · « **Reply #71 on:** February 12, 2007, 05:26:45 PM »

Quote from: vivman1107 on February 12, 2007, 10:22:05 AM

The thing that makes people think girls mature faster is that guys are more openly immature. They will go off on games, sports, cars and other things that are considered immature by so-called mature people. Girls tend to let go of all their "childish" attachments early on in their teenage years and then seem to be more mature. However, a quick look at anything on MTV will show that there is little difference between guys and girls with respect to relationships.

fuh real eh.

Cross · « **Reply #72 on:** February 13, 2007, 08:59:18 AM »

The ways in which mtv has shaped all of our lives....

W1nTry · « **Reply #73 on:** February 13, 2007, 09:26:36 AM »

Quote from: dougla taishou on February 13, 2007, 08:59:18 AM

The ways in which mtv has shaped all of our lives....

Correction, the ways in which some let MTv shape their lives... personally I can't stand ANY reality show and I hardly watch MTv or many other channels cause its all BS. NGC, Disc and Hist ftw.

Cross · « **Reply #74 on:** February 13, 2007, 09:45:59 AM »

Quote from: W1nTry on February 13, 2007, 09:26:36 AM

Quote from: dougla taishou on February 13, 2007, 08:59:18 AM
The ways in which mtv has shaped all of our lives....
Correction, the ways in which some let MTv shape their lives... personally I can't stand ANY reality show and I hardly watch MTv or many other channels cause its all BS. NGC, Disc and Hist ftw.

So you never gape at the girls gone wild ads? or wish Xzibit would pimp your ride?

You know what I think...if we were ever able to understand women....life would not be interesting anymore :p

daniboy79 · « **Reply #75 on:** February 13, 2007, 09:53:27 AM »

...i can't tell you when last i surfed PAST MTV and seen a (M)usic (V)ideo[first 2 letters in the Channel name!!]

...all they seem to show is rubish reality shows about a bunch of stupid spoilt teens having sex with their best friends g/f or b/f ...then feeling bad and crying on TV about it ...stupid americans (changes channel back to TDC to see paulie & senior fight over their delayed chopper project

)

Apprentice · « **Reply #76 on:** February 13, 2007, 10:13:08 AM »

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You know what I think...if we were ever able to understand women....life would not be interesting anymore :p
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U know I think that you have to be very confused to make such a statement, has prob one of the few "nice" girls if there is such a thing or simply just enjoys being nagged as well as stressed alot cause that's usually what you get from them generally....well that the bad stuff like everything they also have many advantages i must say:P

Saxito Pau · « **Reply #77 on:** February 13, 2007, 10:53:18 AM »

"Nice" girls will screw you over worse than the "bad" girls.. At least the "bad" girl know they gonna screw you... and you know what to expect and can adjust to suit.

Apprentice · « **Reply #78 on:** February 13, 2007, 01:17:00 PM »

Quote from: SaxMan on February 13, 2007, 10:53:18 AM

"Nice" girls will screw you over worse than the "bad" girls.. At least the "bad" girl know they gonna screw you... and you know what to expect and can adjust to suit.

I could lime wid you jed..see now he knows what he is talkin about cause wid d bad girls u know wa u gettin b4 but wid d "nice" ones u have dreams and aspirations that would never materialise at all and that let down is prob the one that does the most damage to yuh heart and spirit. I see real fellas get burn an now jus girls dey doin d same thing as well...daz wat happens wen u play wid pplz emotions..

Red Paradox · « **Reply #79 on:** February 13, 2007, 01:19:11 PM »

.........."sigh"
unfortunately.......you're right

Carigamers · « **Reply #79 on:** February 13, 2007, 01:19:11 PM »

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