Author Topic: Understanding Women...anyone accomplished that yet?? (Read 30707 times)

Saxito Pau · « **Reply #80 on:** February 13, 2007, 07:40:36 PM »

the worst part is.. the "nice" girls will 'inadvertently' use you as the "substitute" (i.e. when they don't need a bf but a brother/best friend/buddy/daddy figure and will accept all the benefits and not have to give out much without question.)

They break your heart spirit by telling you bs like "I don't want to ruin the friendship", and then decide to go with a "bad" guy who will actually hurt them..

Then "nice" girl comes running back to you for advice... you killing yourself with "you should be with me, stupid woman!" but sucking it all up because you are such a friend. It's a damn vicious cycle. and she'll stick with him and you are there to "support" her all the way.

UNDERSTAND THAT.

Trust me. I been there multiple times... Real life example:

Therewas a "nice" girl in school who secretly liked me and even had her friend "interview" me and all, but she never follow up.. she just fessed up to "admiring" me and other 'comforting' bs.
Fast forward a few years: I called her one day to touch base. The conversation was going good until her chile fadda outright run her off the phone and threaten me never to call back. I never did.
Fast forward again to 2006 I see her in Pricesmart with a child in pram... damn girl couldn't even remember my name. I wanted to ask her If talking to her in public will get my @$$ kicked this time...

Example two....
"Nice" girl enjoys my companyso much when i take her out a few times, but doesn't want to "ruin the friendship". Last she told me she meet an ex-schoolmate who is an upcoming soca star at a private party. Now she gonna write songs with him and he wants her to be his gf.... I not lying: About $2500 wasted behind her in the last 6 months (mainly due to car rental to take her out). I should really post her comment on my hi5 profile.

*storms off*

Carigamers · « **Reply #80 on:** February 13, 2007, 07:40:36 PM »

daniboy79 · « **Reply #81 on:** February 13, 2007, 09:07:58 PM »

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Example two....
"Nice" girl enjoys my companyso much when i take her out a few times, but doesn't want to "ruin the friendship". Last she told me she meet an ex-schoolmate who is an upcoming soca star at a private party. Now she gonna write songs with him and he wants her to be his gf.... I not lying: About $2500 wasted behind her in the last 6 months (mainly due to car rental to take her out). I should really post her comment on my hi5 profile.

oh F***!!

vivman1107 · « **Reply #82 on:** February 13, 2007, 10:43:32 PM »

Useful info:

Why do they call it PMS?

Because Mad Cow Disease was taken.

SeXiE_ToY · « **Reply #83 on:** February 13, 2007, 10:53:07 PM »

Quote from: vivman1107 on February 13, 2007, 10:43:32 PM

Useful info:

Why do they call it PMS?

Because Mad Cow Disease was taken.

LOL... give us a break na fellas.. we can't help it

daniboy79 · « **Reply #84 on:** February 14, 2007, 08:36:23 AM »

YES YES!! I've figured them out!! ME.. I.. got 'em Figured!!

...I Lie

(wish i did tho... )

[crawls back under bed where it's safe]

Carigamers · « **Reply #84 on:** February 14, 2007, 08:36:23 AM »

Cross · « **Reply #85 on:** February 14, 2007, 09:25:45 AM »

Quote from: daniboy79 on February 13, 2007, 09:07:58 PM

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Example two....
"Nice" girl enjoys my companyso much when i take her out a few times, but doesn't want to "ruin the friendship". Last she told me she meet an ex-schoolmate who is an upcoming soca star at a private party. Now she gonna write songs with him and he wants her to be his gf.... I not lying: About $2500 wasted behind her in the last 6 months (mainly due to car rental to take her out). I should really post her comment on my hi5 profile.
oh F***!!

My sentiments exactly....i would of wait....and wait...when heartbreak comes and she comes running back...BLANK
"GIRL GONEEEE FROM HEREEEE!"

Apprentice · « **Reply #86 on:** February 14, 2007, 05:01:36 PM »

hoss....da nice girl as well as frens as well as substitute roll doesn't work out at all....u know wa i find was d baddest soca tune ever cause is like d baddest ever...

RAISE YUH HAND IF YUH SINGLE....that was a tune...ahh d memories

Cross · « **Reply #87 on:** March 12, 2007, 01:22:07 AM »

Well since this hasn't dropped off the page i guess i could add a lil 2 cents again REVAMP

-after realising that there seems to be a dotish trend.....I had to ask one of my friends why is it that women take shizznit from men....

I talking about these men telling them girls ALL kind of thing and they break up (doesn't matter who did the break up). Firstly these girls aren't bad looking AT ALL, they have nice personalities and they're educated.

She responded that they believe in their hearts that the guy truly loves them and that he was just...angry. AND they love the dude sooo much that if the opportunity ever arises again to 'reconcile' she'll give it another try.

Her bf broke up with her cause in his words "he felt that she was using him"

Another one bf of 3 yrs up and tell the girl he want to break up because - "he want to know when he go out and lime he doesn't have to feel guilty when he dance with someone" - she cried for weeks....and they back together i was like WTF?

Another one is alone because her man call her up a day and was like "Convince me to stay with you" they broke up 4 months now and she watch me in my face a day and say she'll go back with him in a second......again i was like WTF?

So to end this chapter....women sometimes does take ish and then spin around and say men are dogs......

Saxito Pau · « **Reply #88 on:** March 12, 2007, 06:29:56 AM »

O_O

Good god, cross. these stories are REAL?

My position on women these days...

"I got this ice box where my heart used to be.....got an ice box where my heart used to be...so cold (I'm so cold, so cold, so cold)"

New Era Outlaw · « **Reply #89 on:** March 12, 2007, 08:12:17 AM »

I'm afraid so. While it may not be true for all women, there are those out there who would do something like this:

Quote from: Cross

She responded that they believe in their hearts that the guy truly loves them and that he was just...angry. AND they love the dude sooo much that if the opportunity ever arises again to 'reconcile' she'll give it another try.

Personally, I think it's rather pathetic, the way some people confuse 'abuse' and 'just being angry'. It ticks me off sometimes to see women demean themselves in such a way, instead of telling the guy 'F**K OFF.' and moving on with their lives.

In some situations, I would feel sorry for them, because maybe they are relying on this person for financial stability or whatnot, and they have no other alternative to survive. In others.....no. If somebody treats you like crap, then LEAVE. You don't have to take abuse and cover it up by saying 'He's only angry.' It only encourages him more to abuse you, and makes you look even more pathetic.

You know, looking back, I've realised that I've made a TON of mistakes with women in the past.
Primarily because naive me thought that by pampering them, they'd instantly swoon over you.
Not me and that AGAIN.
From that moment on, I see relationships as something that needs mutual respect.
If you don't respect me for the person I am instead of what I can do for you, GET LOST.
I'm dead serious about that, because the whole pampering thing only serves to make the opposite sex view one as a mere object, and not somebody they'd go steady with.

I probably won't ever understand the opposite sex, myself, even though these days, I'm a bit more versed.
I'd tell you one thing, though. It'd be a freezing cold day in hell before I need somebody to tell me how to run my life, that's for sure.

Cross · « **Reply #90 on:** March 12, 2007, 08:34:06 AM »

To clear the air....none of these girls rely on the those 'men' financially

And the stories are true.......all of them came crying to me "oh how you does deal with the pain?"

And i tell them JUST MOVE ON......but they don't.....so help me out here why is it that they claim women are smarter than men?

vivman1107 · « **Reply #91 on:** March 12, 2007, 08:41:04 AM »

We should find out who "they" are and tell them where they can shove their "claim".

SeXiE_ToY · « **Reply #92 on:** March 12, 2007, 12:58:26 PM »

Quote from: Cross on March 12, 2007, 01:22:07 AM

-after realising that there seems to be a dotish trend.....I had to ask one of my friends why is it that women take shizznit from men....

We just have high tolerance i guess.

Apprentice · « **Reply #93 on:** March 13, 2007, 06:00:35 PM »

Quote from: SeXiE_ToY on March 12, 2007, 12:58:26 PM

Quote from: Cross on March 12, 2007, 01:22:07 AM
-after realising that there seems to be a dotish trend.....I had to ask one of my friends why is it that women take shizznit from men....
We just have high tolerance i guess.

Trust me when I say that she isn't lyin at all......stewps...cud give that an amen as well as chakra

Kaizen · « **Reply #94 on:** March 13, 2007, 08:22:31 PM »

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Apprentice · « **Reply #95 on:** March 13, 2007, 08:24:43 PM »

lmfao....good one...lol

Cross · « **Reply #96 on:** March 14, 2007, 09:10:44 AM »

kaizen.......

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Apprentice · « **Reply #97 on:** March 14, 2007, 11:18:57 PM »

Quote from: SaxMan on March 12, 2007, 06:29:56 AM

"I got this ice box where my heart used to be.....got an ice box where my heart used to be...so cold (I'm so cold, so cold, so cold)"

Da tune real bad.....makes real sense as well.....Saxman....beers lime FTW??

Saxito Pau · « **Reply #98 on:** March 15, 2007, 08:00:53 AM »

yeah!!! beastly cold Stag, Heineken or Carlsberg ftw!!

Crixx_Creww · « **Reply #99 on:** March 15, 2007, 10:03:28 AM »

... steups true spartan men dont need to understand women... dont take that chain up!!

FOR SPARTAAA!!!!

Carigamers · « **Reply #99 on:** March 15, 2007, 10:03:28 AM »

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